The attire for bridesmaids has taken a dramatic, positive change in the new Millennium.   Dressmakers have responded to the cries of bridesmaids by offering sophisticated styles and colors that mix and match.  Many brides request their bridesmaids to select their own dress based on a color scheme and other guidelines.  Today, bridesmaids can enjoy elegant dresses that can be worn to other events, such as a New Year's party or black-tie event.   

If you decide to let the bridesmaids select their dress, schedule a dress rehearsal at least one month before the wedding so any adjustments in taste can be made.  At the same time, if the bride prefers all of the bridesmaids to wear the same dress, then she has every right to say so without objection.